Lifestyle Event
Pendulum
Fri, Nov 20, 2026 · Sydney, NSW, Australia
- Date
- Fri, Nov 20, 2026
- Venue / Location
- 191 Parramatta Road, Sydney, NSW, 2038, Australia
- Organizer
- Our Secret Spot
Pendulum Time: 8 pm to 1 am Dress Code: Dress to impress, cocktail attire, kink wear welcome Event Type: Bi plus inclusive play party Who’s It For: All genders, all sexualities, singles, couples, groups, first timers welcome The Vibe Pendulum is a bi-plus-inclusive play party built around openness, freedom, and a genuinely safe, respectful environment for all genders and all sexualities. This event is run in collaboration with Bradford and Angela from By the Bi, and has been part of the OSS calendar for 10 years. Expect a beautifully mixed crowd and a relaxed flow, with space to connect across genders, flirt, socialise, explore, watch, be watched, or simply enjoy the atmosphere without any pressure. If you are coming as a single man, an MM couple, a single non binary guest, or a throuple, Pendulum tends to be one of the easiest nights to settle into, it is relaxed, social, and genuinely welcoming. New to OSS or new to this kind of night, you are absolutely welcome. There is no expectation to play, ever. Important Info Applications for select ticket types: If you are a single man, an MM couple, a single non-binary person, or a throuple, you must apply for this event before purchasing tickets. Single male attendance is strictly limited: Pendulum includes a maximum of 10 carefully chosen, pre-approved single males. Consent first, always: Respectful energy only, boundaries are everything, and our team is here to support you. Online Member Perks OSS Online members get early access to tickets, special member-only perks, and first dibs on select events and upgrades. Not a member yet? JOIN HERE Dress Code Our standard dress code applies, plus Pendulum is the perfect excuse to lean a little kinkier. Think leather, lingerie, latex, lace, and elevated, intentional looks. Full details here: DRESS CODE